I love this kid. He's funny and bright and perceptive and quirky. And, as of last month, diagnosed with high-functioning autism.
I've delayed writing about it because, frankly, it doesn't change anything. He's still Charley, who I adore through and through. But ol' hubby wrote about it on his blog, so I figured the time was nigh.
The diagnosis certainly explains a lot from the past 4 1/2 years. The trains. The incredible memory. The desire to play alone. It all makes perfect sense.
We're incredibly lucky (for many reasons), not the least being that Charley is a mild case. His behaviours are more quirky than limiting. He eats, he sleeps and he is a loving, clever boy. School will (and has) presented challenges, but I think that he will find his way. Co-operating with a group of 25 kids is not going to be his forte, but I think he'll figure out a way to make it work.
This morning Charley and I got to spend a few hours together, just the two of us. It's a PA day and Sam went to his pre-school as usual. Charley and I went for a hike up the river for an hour. It was beautiful and we watched many salmon scooting their way up the rapids.
Our new life is challenging and busy, but it's beautiful and rewarding in equal amounts. Kind of like my kid.
Salmon!! Recognizably captured!!
Aw Charley and fam, you'll be great through all of this.
ReplyDeleteAm feeling compelled to recommend "George and Sam" by Charlotte Moore, mother of boys with autism. I loved it, but it might be too close to home for now. In a few years perhaps...
Give my regards to the niche,
J
I love your post, and Chris' too. Charley will do well, in no small part because of the parents he is blessed with. And who wouldn't want Chris as a role model? Great challenges, met with great rewards.
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